Upset with The Parade Company

[1KielsonDrive]

Thanks, Crystal! I've been lurking on this board for about 2 years now. I don't know what took me so long to sign up, but I'm glad I did. I really enjoy reading about Detroit, and I LOVE seeing all of the pictures. I spent 21 years living in Warrendale. That was a great family neighborhood at the time. So many kids to play with! And because my screen name is a bit ambiguous [[I see a lot of he/she) I will settle the uncertainty. I'm a she. : )

And again, thanks to those of you that understand my reasoning. And thanks for letting me vent a little!

It's good you posted and vented. Nothing wrong with asking for a little feedback. When some people get bent out of shape, you respond properly. If they're way out there, tell 'em to FO. If they're reasonable, have a dialogue. I don't understand all the cries to ban name calling and stop this and that. It happens and we get by it. The next time around, the perpetrator this time may be asking for help and advice.

[smogboy]

It's good you posted and vented. Nothing wrong with asking for a little feedback. When some people get bent out of shape, you respond properly. If they're way out there, tell 'em to FO. If they're reasonable, have a dialogue. I don't understand all the cries to ban name calling and stop this and that. It happens and we get by it. The next time around, the perpetrator this time may be asking for help and advice.

I think when people start name calling, we lose perspective on what the initial discussion was all about. Keep it on target. Discuss the issues, debate them, argue for your point of view, and maybe agree to disagree but we also know how people can take things personally here. Not that I want to speak for Lowell or anyone else here but I like the no name calling here because it helps to keep a focus on topics here.

I have no problem with people venting such as moash76 did here. I think he/she was actively looking for some perspective, advice and maybe a sound rationale for recourse. And quite honestly there are some pretty bright folks here on the boards that can help.

One of the best things about this forum is the multiple points of view and the information being distributed. I don't exactly have to agree with all of it or subscribe to everyone's opinion but I surely shouldn't be subject to being called a crass name if I disagree with someone's point of view either.

[daddeeo]

I, for one, am looking forward to what kind of follow up the Parade people give you.
Customer service seems to be a lost art for a lot of businesses these days. Non-profits should be especially
sensitive to bad publicity and unhappy donators.
Did anyone have a good time at the parade?

[bartock]

I, for one, am looking forward to what kind of follow up the Parade people give you.
Customer service seems to be a lost art for a lot of businesses these days. Non-profits should be especially
sensitive to bad publicity and unhappy donators.
Did anyone have a good time at the parade?

We were in the south end of Campus Martius, in front of the Chase building. It was a great place to watch an incredible event.

[1KielsonDrive]

I think when people start name calling, we lose perspective on what the initial discussion was all about. Keep it on target. Discuss the issues, debate them, argue for your point of view, and maybe agree to disagree but we also know how people can take things personally here. Not that I want to speak for Lowell or anyone else here but I like the no name calling here because it helps to keep a focus on topics here.

I have no problem with people venting such as moash76 did here. I think he/she was actively looking for some perspective, advice and maybe a sound rationale for recourse. And quite honestly there are some pretty bright folks here on the boards that can help.

One of the best things about this forum is the multiple points of view and the information being distributed. I don't exactly have to agree with all of it or subscribe to everyone's opinion but I surely shouldn't be subject to being called a crass name if I disagree with someone's point of view either.

Yeah Smogboy, I agree with you .The difference is that you speak of the ideal situation and I'm speaking of reality. I'd love it if we just had good old discussions and debates. Not likely. Too many yellers here.

[smogboy]

Yeah Smogboy, I agree with you .The difference is that you speak of the ideal situation and I'm speaking of reality. I'd love it if we just had good old discussions and debates. Not likely. Too many yellers here.

If those people want to yell, I'm hoping they're not thinking clearly and rationally enough to have a solid argument. Idealistic? Maybe but one has to have hope. I've always considered that a trademark of anyone living in or around Detroit. It's sometimes all we have.

And yes, I'm also curious as to the outcome with regards to the Parade Company discussion.

[1KielsonDrive]

If those people want to yell, I'm hoping they're not thinking clearly and rationally enough to have a solid argument. Idealistic? Maybe but one has to have hope. I've always considered that a trademark of anyone living in or around Detroit. It's sometimes all we have.

And yes, I'm also curious as to the outcome with regards to the Parade Company discussion.

Idealism is a requisite for living in the Detroit area. Gotta have it, no doubt. Some people think I'm just curmudgeonly. Not true, I hold my optimism and idealism close. That's why I often say ; "Enjoy Detroit for what it is right now!" As bad as Detroit has it, there are still many great and cool things about the city to enjoy every day. I won't even get started on a list. I had a day at Eastern Market and the Johansen Charles Gallery a couple of weeks ago, followed by cruising the St. Aubin. Mt. Elliot, Chene Street corridors with an aged African-American friend of many years. We learn lots from each other. We then proceeded to Hamtown for a walk and more talking. Later it was a dive bar in northeast Detroit and burgers at the White Tower in Hamtown. I was totally rejuvenated after that. Try telling that to some of those A2'ers and Oakland County residents and you'll be laughed outta town.

[English]

Thanks Kielson...

Idealism is a requisite for living in the Detroit area. Gotta have it, no doubt. Some people think I'm just curmudgeonly. Not true, I hold my optimism and idealism close. That's why I often say ; "Enjoy Detroit for what it is right now!" As bad as Detroit has it, there are still many great and cool things about the city to enjoy every day. I won't even get started on a list. I had a day at Eastern Market and the Johansen Charles Gallery a couple of weeks ago, followed by cruising the St. Aubin. Mt. Elliot, Chene Street corridors with an aged African-American friend of many years. We learn lots from each other. We then proceeded to Hamtown for a walk and more talking. Later it was a dive bar in northeast Detroit and burgers at the White Tower in Hamtown. I was totally rejuvenated after that. Try telling that to some of those A2'ers and Oakland County residents and you'll be laughed outta town.

Yep, but they don't know what they're missing, do they? Whenever I start getting stressed out in my PhD program I know it's because I haven't been home in a while. The day before Thanksgiving, I came home to Detroit a day early just to shop at the Avalon Bakery and check out the parade floats before the fact. Visiting family, having lunch with friends, and going to my favorite places in the city helps to center me and realize where I've come from. It's kind of weird, but among the Michigan graduate students these days, sometimes those of us who come from right up the road are a bit more exotic than those who come from overseas, California, or are New England Brahmins. So I always encourage them to get out into the city and explore things.

I hope Moash gets a response from the Parade Company, and that he brings his family to future events. I am sure they want to have the positive PR.

[East Detroit]

...my PhD program...

Ding, ding, ding...