Is Detroit Singles a scam?

**Zacha341** · September-02-16, 05:24 PM

Hah! What a scene. Rots of RUCK! The disadvantage for the newbie to that stuff is that they're not always aware how long some folks have been trolling a given site unless the person has favorites with a long time profile [[view-able), or maybe they have muilti profiles? Like how long does one stay? I guess long enough to meet that ever-perfect match? Or just to 'date' [[hook ups)?

Yeah, be VERY careful. Meet the person fast, no weeks of texting and what not. That becomes a fake persona 'build'. Then eh, you meet and well!!! A friend of mine met a guy who was totally different in vibe and countenance once met. The weeks of online mean little then!

**Honky Tonk** · September-03-16, 08:11 AM

Originally Posted by Zacha341

Hah! What a scene. Rots of RUCK! The disadvantage for the newbie to that stuff is that they're not always aware how long some folks have been trolling a given site unless the person has favorites with a long time profile [[view-able), or maybe they have muilti profiles? Like how long does one stay? I guess long enough to meet that ever-perfect match? Or just to 'date' [[hook ups)?

Yeah, be VERY careful. Meet the person fast, no weeks of texting and what not. That becomes a fake persona 'build'. Then eh, you meet and well!!! A friend of mine met a guy who was totally different in vibe and countenance once met. The weeks of online mean little then!

The voice of experience?

**Zacha341** · September-04-16, 09:00 AM

------ Then I met you here and I knew all the fruitless searching was over!

Seriously, it seemed I was the listening ear of several online dater friends -- or witness re. how that first date/ meeting so and so went. As a safety factor. I know of a couple [[who met on an online dating service) just married and doing very well. But I think that's the exception.

Originally Posted by Honky Tonk

The voice of experience?

**Honky Tonk** · September-05-16, 02:43 AM

Originally Posted by Zacha341

------ Then I met you here and I knew all the fruitless searching was over!

Seriously, it seemed I was the listening ear of several online dater friends -- or witness re. how that first date/ meeting so and so went. As a safety factor. I know of a couple [[who met on an online dating service) just married and doing very well. But I think that's the exception.

[[Awwwwww, shucks.......

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Back in ancient times, before the internet, and you had to walk over to a phone to answer it, I tried "Classifieds" dating a couple of times. [[no, NOT the Metro Times) Actually, both parties were really nice and seemed "Ok". Went out twice with one. I just didn't feel I had anything strongly in common with either party. Bit of an odd duck I guess.