If you can equate putting one's feet on a table in a restaurant with my behavior at the end of a picnic, you've got other issues.
Both of you!
Stosh...it was effort enough. Again...for what purpose?! To what end...if it brings you joy, then go for it...as long as it isn't at anyone else's expense.
I examine my soul often enough to know my motivations...it is not a bad exercise.
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