Sorry ladies. Met a wonderful young lady of 27 at Java Hutt in Ferndale of all places back in May. We clicked right away and I decided, with some coaxing from her brother and father [[ethnic family) to have a religious ceremony [[Nancy and I are secular-father is prominent in Dearborn with a local paper) and a civil ceremony with our cool gay mayor at Ferndale city hall. We had an elegant elaborate wedding party last Sunday, and are planning a trip to Jamaica for a honeymoon.With my cynical pessimistic outlook on marriage and relationships never thought it would happen. Inlaws filled the apartment with all new furniture, under the stipulation I get the carpet cleaned, paint the place and get rid of my cat. Nancy and her mom cleaned up my messy dirty bachelor pad, organized the mess. Now Im starting a new life....