Welcome to Detroit! I lived in Oregon for 2 years before moving to Detroit. There are it's trade offs, but I think you will find a good group of friends here. I've found that people are more social here because we depend on socializing more than nature outings like Oregon. Kentucky and New York are a lot closer and it will be easier and less expensive to visit your families than it would be in Oregon. I suggest visiting Belle Isle, ride around the People Mover, walk the riverfront and go to Windsor. Also join a neighborhood sports team [[soccer, softball, kickball) Good way to meet people... Good luck in your move!