Don't know what your mother's personality is like but if it's anything like my mother's, you will need to grow a thicker skin. My mother does not live with me, YET, but even when she's just visiting, she's highly critical of all things. I hear things like: Why did you buy that brand of dish soap? You should use [[insert name of any other brand), it's better. I don't vacuum correctly, fold towels correctly, etc.
As far as family goes, my older brother moved out of state in 1982, he's been back to MI once, for my father's funeral. Whenever I have called him for advice about our mom, he says: I don't know why you call me, I'm way out here, there's nothing I can do from here. Bunch'a'BS!
Two years ago he called me to say he was in the UP, had been there for about a week, and wanted to know if I would drive my mother to Gaylord [[we live near Detroit), where he would meet us, so they could visit because "he just didn't know if he could handle driving another 500+ miles". He also said "he didn't know if he could handle driving in the city".
Although it would only have been an overnight trip [[all the time he could spare to "visit"), I told him no...
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