I love how we are critiquing the way Muslims pray and dress because of what a horribly small amount of extremist Muslim men have done. This makes no sense.
Orthodox Jews pray separately [[in fact in one synagogue I've been in looks like the women are in jail). Orthodox Jewish woman are to wear wigs or a full hair covering and only skirts. Orthodox [[small "o") Catholic women still wear veils in church. Should we go into these religious communities and tell them to have a "revolution"? It really isn't the way Muslims are dressing or praying that is leading to extremism.
I would recommend this article for reading. Especially the last two paragraphs.
http://www.thenation.com/article/wha...sis-prisoners/
Wanna create more extremists? Alienate and disparage your Muslim co-worker, neighbor, or classmate. Demand they "assimilate" or lest they be deported.