Originally Posted by
belleislerunner
But if you're going to be an overcomer - you can't limit yourself to geographical boundaries. If transportation is your concern - one can move to any city that has a subway/mass transit/walkable corridor. But what you can't do is stay in your current situation, whine about the lack of resources, but refuse to move to where the resources are.
That's like saying you should be allowed to buy a house, not pay your mortgage or not pay your taxes, or not pay your water/heat, but should be allowed to stay in the house you couldn't afford, while not paying your bills, because you're entitled to stay there. Entitlement - the step sibling of a victim mentality.