We had Harry J. Will handle the cremation for our Mom. They were most willing to work it any way we wanted. We were really happy with their arrangements. RE: what to do with the cremains, I have not been able to decide on a good spot. Our Mom wanted us to fly to Europe with her cremains and let her loose over there somewhere. We are not doing that, but what would be an acceptable way? A friend has suggested a really cool idea, to hire a boat and take her out in the Atlantic, toss in a nice wreath and pour her in there. I liked the sound of that, followed by a nice white wine, I think. That way, she could end up in Europe eventually.